Saturday, March 21, 2015

Consistently Produce Professional Quality Photos

Consistently Produce Professional Quality Photos (Every Single Shoot!)

Capturing photos of people can feel like a roll of the dice, sometimes it works and often it doesn’t. Washed out faces, harsh shadows and missed opportunities leave you, your friends, and family disappointed. You end up avoiding taking pictures of people because of the fear you will not deliver what people want.

What you need is the confidence and skills to work with your subjects in any location to create great portraits.


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Friday, March 13, 2015

6 Reasons Why Sexual Predators Target Churches

6 Reasons Why Sexual Predators Target Churches

It is terrible but true—sexual predators target churches. In the mind of a predator, a church offers a compelling target and, too often, an easy target. I recently worked my way through On Guard by Deepak Reju and learned that there are at least 6 reasons why sexual predators specifically target churches.

Christians Are Naïve

Some sexual offenders state it outright—they go after churches because Christians tend to be naïve. Anna Salter says, “If children can be silenced and the average person is easy to fool, many offenders report that religious people are even easier to fool than most people.” Reju says, “Christian are, generally speaking, trusting folks. Child abusers recognize this fact and want to take full advantage of it.” He quotes a former prosecutor who lays it out: “For a variety of reasons, we naively tend to automatically lower our guard when we are amongst professing Christians. This same naïveté is why offenders flock to the faith community; no other environment provides them such quick and easy access to children without fear of raising concerns.”

Christians Are Ignorant of the Problem

Mere Church

Christians are not only naïve, but also ignorant—ignorant of the problem of abuse and the extent of the problem within faith communities. Many Christians consider it unlikely or impossible that abuse could happen within their church, so they fail to take adequate measures, they ignore warnings, and they disregard reports. Reju says, “Many Christians don’t know how to distinguish likability and trustworthiness. They confuse the two categories, assuming that if someone is courteous and nice, they must also be trustworthy. Moreover, some Christians behave as though the problem doesn’t exist, and some look with suspicion on reports of abuse. They believe children are lying and are more prone to take an adult’s word. Sexual predators know that these dynamics operate in churches, and they know they can get away with a lot on account of it.”

Churches Offer Access to Children

Perhaps most simply of all, churches offer access—and often very easy access—to children. Reju says this well: “Because churches are always looking for help with children’s ministry and often are facing shortages of volunteers, sexual offenders know that churches are desperate. In children’s ministry, volunteers are often late. Some cancel at the last minute when they had promised to volunteer. Others don’t even bother showing up for their service. So, when a courteous, kind, reliable man walks in and offers to help, who’s going to turn him down? No other organization provides such quick and easy access to children. Sexual predators know this, so they show up at churches, eager to make themselves known and ready to serve.”

(Many) Christians Abuse Authority

Sometimes authority is put in the hands of evil individuals who then abuse that authority by taking advantage of others. Christians are rightly taught to submit to authority, but not always warned that there are situations in which authority can and must be defied. “Child abusers will use positions of spiritual authority to gain access to children and abuse them. Ask yourself: If a pastor or priest walks into a room, what’s your normal disposition? Most of us have a degree of caution around strangers until we’ve gotten to know them and built a trusting relationship. But pastors and priests are often afforded trust just because of their position as clergy.” This, of course, has been proven again and again by sickening news headlines.

Churches Can Be Manipulated

Church offers religious roles or language that abusers can manipulate to accomplish their ugly purposes. Child abusers often use church-based roles in order to provide rationale and cover for their abuse. An offender may take on a role like Sunday school teacher, nursery worker, youth minister, camp supervisor, or pastor in order to gain the position he or she needs to access children. He may “also use religious language to confuse a child’s understanding of God, sin, or faith. An offender might tell a child that he is loving the child when in fact he is abusing him. The child might have a sense that he is sinning in some way, especially if he hears from his parents or the church that sex outside of marriage is sin. But when a Sunday school teacher or pastor or priest tells him something like, ‘God told me to do this, so you must obey me,’ or ‘This is not sin, but love,’ the child will not only be confused but will be inclined not to second-guess a religious authority figure.” Religious roles and language can provide all the cover an abuser needs.

Churches Offer Cheap Grace

Sometimes abusers are caught, but even then they may get away with their crimes. Abusers count on receiving cheap grace—grace that comes far too freely and with far too little cost. “Abusers are not dumb. They know that if they cry, offer words of contrition, and promise never to do it again, they are very likely not to have to face significant consequences. Pastors and churches are very forgiving. They are quick to apply the gospel—and very, very slow to apply the consequences that come from the law.” An offender will weep and admit that he was wrong and promise never to do anything like it again, and the church may respond by determining they will let it go this once. But when they do that, they simply allow the offender to go right back to his behavior, and allow the child to remain a victim.

In the face of all of this, it is no wonder that the Bible calls us to be “wise as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16). But while all of these dangers are true, and while abusers are deliberate in targeting churches, this does not mean that we are left defenseless. For that reason the bulk of Reju’s book is dedicated to creating and enforcing policies that will protect the innocent—innocent children who participate in church activities, and innocent adults who care for them. Please, will you have someone in your church read the book and see how you can better prevent abuse in your church?

You can read my review of On Guard right here. It is available at Amazon and Westminster Books.

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Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Clarke Central's Christian Norton follows in the family business

Clarke Central's Norton follows in the family business

On paper, Christian Norton’s career path seems natural, if not predictable.

Norton is the new head coach of the Clarke Central boy’s track and field team, which opened its season last weekend. He is also the son of University of Georgia track and field head coach Wayne Norton. Yet Norton is pursuing a dream neither he nor his father imagined. 

“Actually, I tried to steer my children almost away from athletics,” Wayne Norton says. “I really wanted them to focus more on the academic side — just being good students, being disciplined, taking care of your business, going to class, doing all of those things.” 

Passion, not pressure, has led Norton to where he is today.

In the Norton household, being a well-rounded citizen was the highest priority and was established at the most basic of levels, like reading the daily newspaper. Norton and his three younger sisters had to follow a strict set of rules if they wanted to read the sports section. One, read the first paragraph of every story on the front page. Two, read one full story from every section of the paper. Three — the ultimate goal for Norton — read the sports page.

In spite of the elder Norton’s attempts to push his children away from athletics, the Georgia coach admits that he could see his son drifting that direction from an early age. At less than a year old, when most children stick to words like “mama” and “dada,” Norton was saying “football.” 

As Norton grew, his love of sports developed into dreams of success. He began playing basketball in fifth grade, his first organized team sport, and made elaborate plans to play in the NBA, NFL and MLB, and run track in the Olympics — all at the same time. 

Although he was not considering a future in coaching at the time, two key events in seventh grade changed the eventual course of Norton’s career: He joined the track team and he skipped straight to the sports section on one memorable day. 

Norton brought the paper to school with him that day, where he was free of the observing eye of his parents. He passed over the daily news in his hurry to read of Hart County football coach William DeVane, who had led his team to four undefeated regular seasons in a row. 

“Man, that’s who I want to play for,” Norton said to himself on that day.

Although Norton lived in Clarke County and had never put on a helmet and shoulder pads before, a dream was born. By the end of eighth grade, he had finished his first year of football and received some fateful news: DeVane was coming to Clarke Central to become the head football coach of the Gladiators.

“I feel like it was orchestrated just for me,” Norton says. “After my four years were up, he left and went back to Hart County. I like to think that he came here just to coach me and then he went back to Hart County to get back to his life.”

During those four years from 2002-05, Norton formed a bond with DeVane that has lasted to this day. He also excelled in the sport, helping the Gladiators win a region championship and compete in the state playoffs on two separate occasions. But perhaps the most significant aspect of Norton’s time at Clarke Central was that he began to develop as a coach himself.

“He had what I call go-get,” DeVane says. “He wasn’t afraid of hard work. He wasn’t the biggest fellow in the world, but he made up for it with heart and determination. I did see that in him, that he wanted to form those relationships with younger players and kind of guide and help them.”

That go-get became especially evident when Norton decided to walk on to the UGA football team at the defensive back position. An injury forced him to retire from the sport before ever playing in a game. But during his time on the team, his father would occasionally look over from the track and observe Norton at football practice. 

“He’d go with the big, 300-pound football players and be talking to them. He’s got their attention,” the elder Norton says. “You would think they’re just going, ‘Hey, get out of my way little guy,’ but they’re listening to him. He com

mands attention and respect, and he’s been like that since he was young.”

Norton received his undergraduate and graduate degrees in economics and sport management from UGA while coaching football and track at Clarke Central and Clarke Middle on the side. In the summer of 2012, he moved to Houston to begin teaching full-time with no plans to join the ranks of coaching.

But passion doesn’t rest. A few weeks into his new job, he sent an email to the head football coach at Sharpstown High School and was back on the field as a defensive assistant that very first fall. 

It wasn’t easy, however. Norton lived 40 miles away from the high school and did not have a car. He’d wake up at 5 a.m. to catch the morning bus in time to be at his teaching job. After teaching and coaching all day, he’d get back on the bus at 7:30 p.m. and reach his house by 10 p.m. after transferring several times.

“I didn’t have time to do anything but what I loved, and that’s working with young people and athletics,” he says. “It got away all the extra stuff in life and kind of left the core of what’s important.”

And what’s important to Norton, in addition to his family, his faith and his passion for sports, is his love of Clarke Central. His longing to return to his alma mater, what he calls his “favorite place in the world,” brought him back to Athens in 2013. 

Norton now spends his days as a special education and history teacher at Hilsman Middle School. In the fall, he coaches wide receivers at Clarke Central. 

And this spring, Norton is directing a team of young athletes on the track as a first-time head coach. The Gladiators’ most recent success was in 2011 when they won the state title. They have had lackluster seasons since then and former head coach Stefan Smith moved to rival high school Cedar Shoals to run its track program. The Gladiators are in Norton’s hands now. 

“At Clarke Central, if I do my best and become the best coach I can be, and become the best teacher I can be, I feel like I can achieve most of my career goals just within this block,” he says. “The opportunity to be here is worth it. This is where I want to be.”

Norton now echoes to his athletes the same messages that his father imparted to him. In fact, he has laid out three specific expectations for his team: be excellent in the community, be excellent in the classroom and be excellent in competition — in that order. Norton also has expectations of a winning season, but he is most concerned with laying the foundation for a program that develops athletes into productive citizens.

“Coach Norton has emphasized that,” Marcus Ellis, a junior on the team, says. “You have to be a good person everywhere, as well as on the track. The most important thing is that you be the best person you can be.”

— The Grady Sports Bureau is part of the sports media program at the University of Georgia’s Grady College of Journalism and Mass Communication. 



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Wednesday, March 4, 2015

GOOD NEWS CLUB: Child Evangelism Fellowship

Good News Club - remembering Ms. Payne

           Ms. Payne, far left/back row

What is a Good News Club?

Good News Club is a ministry of Child Evangelism Fellowship in which trained teachers meet with groups of children in schools, homes, community centers, churches, apartment complexes, just about anywhere the children can easily and safely meet with their parent's permission. Each week the teacher presents an exciting Bible lesson using colorful materials from CEF Press. This action-packed time also includes songs, Scripture memory, a missions story and review games or other activities focused on the lesson's theme.

As with all CEF ministries, the purpose of Good News Club is to evangelize boys and girls with the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ and establish (disciple) them in the Word of God and in a local church for Christian living.

Can we really teach the Bible in public schools?

Yes! The Gospel has been taught freely in public schools all over the world for some time.  Now children in the U.S. have that opportunity, too!  In 2001 the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in Good News Clubs v. Milford Central School that Good News Clubs can meet in public schools in the United States after school hours on the same terms as other community groups. Children attend Good News Club only with their parents' permission.

What is taught in Good News Club?

Each week an exciting Bible lesson using colorful materials from CEF Press is presented. This action-packed time also includes songs, Scripture memory, a missions story and review games or other activities focused on the lesson's theme.

Each club includes a clear presentation of the Gospel and an opportunity for children to trust the Lord Jesus as Savior. Every club also includes strong discipleship training to build character and strengthen moral and spiritual growth. All children are encouraged to attend a local church.

Who teaches a Good News Club?

Christians who are concerned for boys and girls work together volunteering their time and energy to teach Good News Club. They are trained by Child Evangelism Fellowship to have a club that is exciting and informative so that children will want to keep coming. Teachers are asked to sign the CEF Statement of Faith and agree to abide by the policies of the organization. Adults working with the program are screened according to our child protection policy.

In the United States there is a movement among churches to adopt a public school Good News Club.    Read more.

How can I get involved?

There are several opportunities to be involved with a Good News Club.  You can pray for the children and teachers in the club. Become a club teacher or helper by contacting your local chapter and asking about training and opportunities. Read more.



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Saturday, February 28, 2015

A PHOTO JOURNAL OF SOUTHERNNESS


A PHOTO JOURNAL OF SOUTHERNNESS

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Mr. Spock:The ISREAL PROJECT


Leonard Nemoy tell about the Clingin sign used on Star Trek

Monday, February 23, 2015

Happiness Is a Moral Obligation

Happiness Is a Moral Obligation

For much of my life, I, like most people, regarded the pursuit of happiness as largely a selfish pursuit. One of the great revelations of middle age has been that happiness, far from being only a selfish pursuit, is a moral demand.

When we think of character traits we rightly think of honesty, integrity, moral courage, and acts of altruism. Few people include happiness in any list of character traits or moral achievements.

But happiness is both.

Happiness — or at least acting happy, or at the very least not inflicting one’s unhappiness on others — is no less important in making the world better than any other human trait.

With some exceptions, happy people make the world better and unhappy people make it worse. This is true on the personal (micro) and global (macro) planes.

On the micro plane:

Consider the effects of an unhappy parent on a child. Ask people raised by an unhappy parent if that unhappiness hurt them.

Consider the effects of an unhappy spouse on a marriage.

Consider the effects of unhappy children on their parents. I know a couple that has four middle-aged children of whom three are truly extraordinary people, inordinately well adjusted and decent. The fourth child has been unhappy most of his life and has been a never-ending source of pain to the parents. That one child’s unhappiness has always overshadowed the joy that the parents experience from the other three children. Hence the saying that one is no happier than one’s least happy child.

Consider the effects of a brooding co-worker on your and your fellow workers’ morale — not to mention the huge difference between working for a happy or a moody employer.

We should regard bad moods as we do offensive body odor. Just as we shower each day so as not to inflict our body odors on others, so we should monitor our bad moods so as not to inflict them on others. We shower partly for ourselves and partly out of obligation to others. The same should hold true vis a vis moods; and just as we avoid those who do not do something about their body odor we should avoid whenever possible those who do nothing about their bad moods.

The flip side of the damage unhappy people do when they subject others to their unhappiness is the good that people do when they are, or at least act, happy. Just think of how much more you want to help people when you are in particularly happy mood and you realize how much more good the happy are likely to do.

On the macro plane, the case for the relationship between happiness and goodness is as apparent.

It is safe to say that the happiest Germans were not those who joined the Nazi Party. Nor did the happiest Europeans become Communists. And happy Muslims are not generally among those who extol death. The motto of Hamas and other Islamic groups engaged in terror, “We love death as much as [Americans, Jews] love life,” does not appeal to happy Muslims.

Cults, hysteria and mass movements all appeal to the unhappy far more than to the happy. It is one more example of the genius of America’s Founders to include “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness” in the Declaration of Independence. No other major civilization so enshrined happiness as a core value. This American belief in the moral and societal merit in pursuing happiness is a major reason America has developed differently than Europe. The American emphasis on happiness is one reason no fanatical political or religious movement, Left or Right, has been able to succeed in America as such movements have repeatedly succeeded in Europe.

The pursuit of happiness is not the pursuit of pleasure. The pursuit of pleasure is hedonism, and hedonists are not happy because the intensity and amount of pleasure must constantly be increased in order for hedonism to work. Pleasure for the hedonist is a drug.

But the pursuit of happiness is noble. It benefits everyone around the individual pursuing it, and it benefits humanity. And that is why happiness is a moral obligation.